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情人节2019

Tuesday, February 19, 2019
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以前情人节,花和礼物,可有可无。 但仅今年,有点脑进水,怎样都要他配合一下。

男人嘛。。。
知道情人节要到了,早就准备惊喜,这叫浪漫
没钱的,自己做礼物,心意在,女人是看到的
看到一位朋友,自弹自唱,是个独一无二的礼物,物价啊!


不准备礼物,没关系,还要100句理由顶回去,就是钢铁直

无可否认,情人节的花和巧克力都大大起价,商家趁之涨价,是蛮贵的。
男人啊,为了这些理由,不送了,这算什么? 你可以不送花和巧克力。你就送点别的,不会起价的物品嘛。

朋友30多年来第一次拍拖,是满怀期待的。每个女人心里都住着小小的爱情童话。第一次情人节,怎么不送呀?
我也和他(我老公)理论一番,是没有对和错。
如果说是几十年感情结了婚,(你的钱是给她的话)可以免了。
怎么,我看钱是肤浅了吗?那情人节你送礼也说贵,不买又是什么呢?

第一次(女人初恋的意思),毕竟也要难忘一下。
至少你曾经收过花,女人不会忘记。至少某天他没给了,那她曾经拥有过。
跟风一次也不会很过分?
你们(不送礼的直男)说找对了,每天就是情人节。 撇开所谓肤浅、用钱买的礼物,你是否每天甜言密语吗?每天虚寒温暖吗?保证没有委屈过她,没吵架过,什么都让着她?可以不用她做家务,请女佣吗?
如果没有就不要把 “每天就是情人节”当借口了啦。
(当然,也不应该给过情人节了,就可以打骂女人。)
不送的花,要等几时?等到别的男人送了才警惕?等到清明节?
花会枯,那么你知道有所谓的永久的生花吗?(请努力上网查下)
一年送礼物的理由只有3次,1是情人节,2是生日,3是周年纪念日。
送女人不知道送什么? 你不知道女人的市场最多选择吗?
女生全身上下,由上;头饰,到脚;鞋子,什么都可以。
她什么都有了?女人就是不嫌多,只要不重复同款,什么都接受。厉害了吧。

好啦,只是说些气话。也很肤浅的叫男人偶尔(肤浅地)配合一下你最爱的女人,有何难处?
虽然她口口说你浪费钱,心里是甜的,你知道吗?(可能女强人就不需要了,女强人可能才不要男朋友)
她开心不就你开心吗?对吗?除非你在情人节有个不好的经历,那么跟她说下,她就明白咯。

好啦,我不是逼男人在情人节该送礼。女人也可以送男人礼物。人生就1次送花,或被人送花就够了(可能我不够啦。啊哈哈哈)

情人节,老公/男朋友给过说明细心;不给也并不代表他不爱你。毕竟,男人好不好,不在给不给你过情人节。

谢谢你们听我说有的没的。

最后谢谢我的老公,偶尔给惊喜我呢。
老实说,我没察觉你买花给我。虽然我嘴说要礼物,心里有80%是不会收到花/礼物,20%是任然渴望着。
然后我隔天竟然收到了,那个愉悦度可是大大的提高了。

在你朋友的角度,可能我不算是男人们蒙昧以求的妻子(是的话,我就很抢手了),也可能是犀利人妻,但是干我 什么事?

当然谢谢你不嫌弃我。






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What a wife wish for a husband to do

Monday, September 24, 2018
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Every first baby, you and your husband are new as a parent. Everyone has a first time, do not expect he or she know more than you.  Yes, it is frustrated when baby keep crying and you don't know what he/she wants. Mothers as many aspects or being expected that they know what a baby want, cause mothers had physically connected with baby for 10 months.

As a mum, I'd say yes. It is like you've had special bonding before you husband came to place and ready for it.  Somehow it is not so true too.... because new mum also need some back up.

So, what a husband can do to help out even though not handling babies.Baby can leave to mum temporary:

1) It would be glad that husband do the housework.
 Any housework you can think of. From toilet to clean the drawers, washing and vacuum...else, please hire a part time maid. Thank you.

2) Do the cooking, either order a delivery or bring the food home
 Make sure the kid/wife plates is full with dishes. Even wife is busy feeding baby, husband can offer help to feed the wife or baby. hehe~ (that is my ideal way la)

3) Cook for the kids
If you do not know how to cook.... skip this or learn this.

4) Play with the kids (without having handphone around)

5) Wash the bottles, dishes, clothes (okay, just like back to number 1)
Any feeding bottles that is used, pumps that is left on basin, plates that had just finished feeding the kid.

6) Assist to take all the things (Include baby if you can)
Nappy bag, stroller, walker, groceries...

7) Pack baby nappy bag, bring all the necessities 
Learn to pack the bag, so that you know where the things put.

8) Remind for a baby check up
Baby need routine vaccinations and check up. Mark on your calendar and remind your wife.

All of the above.... if you did few of it, wifey will be grateful :) 

So far, he is improving though. I'm so glad when he said this to me:
"Let me babysit him from now, you do your nursing and get to bed early."
"Come, I help you wash these."
"I will take all of the things here, you just push the baby on stroller."
Actions: take most of the food and put on my food plate.

Hopes you would continue this. 
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Misc of preggy

Sunday, October 29, 2017
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hubby is hilarious in picture, as in he want to eat watermelon

End of October, why you so hot??
I could just melt
my baby also feel very hot
I would have take out my clothes or half to fan the baby
I even asked my colleague, do office open aircond?
while my colleague is wearing jacket, i switch on my mini fans. damn!


October means a lot for me. I went in to this company 7 years ago. 
I learned a lots, and I'm still learning
from promoted, people management to .... speechless moment
what I'm glad is, she is still beside me no matter what.
She came in 2 days later than me. We could said that same batch, but she is younger than me la.
I never see her as competitors, even she does, i will look into her good side and learn from her.
She could speak to anyone which I still cannot.
when I've got memory lost, she is the one recall those for me.
She won't bossy around, she won't simply tell out secret to anyone which I feel so safe with her
She encourage me no matter in work or in personal things
feeling so grateful to have you everyday.
Happy 7th anniversary!

 craving for nyonya food, and here we went!


yummy!!

let you see my big foot, with two holes...
I pressed it and it became like this for a few minutes
 yes, water retention.. well
cannot do anything with it when in the 3rd trimester.
bear with it!!

 I was boring that time, and think of this.
I combine them together. 
Father and son, do they look the same??

check up is required monthly
then check up in kk is required bi-weekly
this is because I've got low hemoglobin(HB) level
Last week, I've got to level 12 already! damn happy!
I hope it remain.

During this whole pregnancy, I was asked to follow diet to make good irons
I not really followed, but i tried my best. 
both parent and parent-in-law also help by giving me red dates water and chinese herbal to keep up my HB level. It is sad every time I went to clinic, it still not maintained in that normal level.
Klinik kesihatan also recommend me to seek nutritionist which is free.
I need to take meat every meal, less rice, at least bayam, high iron food.
Plus I'm over weight. Which need extra careful with diet.
I started to take oats, wholemeal breads, red rice...
My weight maintained!


But now... it gained drastically again!!!
aiyo, don't care already.
Currently near to 35 weeks.
I can feel my baby is heavier.
Last check up, he is already 2kg!
Yay!
Wait, means the rest of 18kg is with me.
How am I going to slim down?

I think I'll be big fat mama later on.

Haih, that time only worry bah!
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小王子

Wednesday, October 18, 2017
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小王子,你好哦!



首先,我来介绍一下,我是你妈妈~ 现在32周了,开始期待你的来临了。拜托出生时,给妈妈顺利一下,哈哈哈,这么快给你要条件。

 刚怀上你时,不知是男女,那时,我和你爸爸心情挺复杂的。迎接新生命,你爸妈,我们,还没准备好。但也不是不开心,只是担心胜于开心。
无论如何,我们还是有担当的父母,既然有了,就要面对。
 慢慢的,担心变成接受,接受也变得期待了。

还记得。。第17个星期时,早上,当我赖着床,平躺在床上,突然觉得肚子有点跳动,两下。我真的好奇是不是你。因为肚子不会无端端跳的。传个简讯跟爸爸说了。他说,是真的吗?还很早呀。。。我也这么认为,不以为然。 之后,慢慢的,平躺时,你都咕噜似的动一下,我觉得,真的是你! 微微地,温柔的。 以后,当我坐着或躺着,都可以感觉到你了。 感觉很实在!那时,爸爸也要触觉你,当他手放在我肚皮,你就不动了!很调皮。当医生照你时,你就一直在动,连医生都很难找到位子,看你是否健康。也让妈咪躺了很久。我只好默默跟你说,乖乖,不要动几分钟,之后我们可以回家,你要怎么动都可以。你真的听话了,都让医生顺利看到所要看到的地方。

现在,更不用说,你越来越大,滚动时特别有力。踢时,偶尔会让我觉得痛。我躺不好时你会像瘙痒似的,滑一下,害我弹起来。晚上偶尔你伸展,感觉我肚子要被你耻了两段。宝贝,你到底在干嘛呢?

 如今,宝宝用品也准备7788了。很开心是妈妈拼命网购!爸爸负责刷卡买床等大用品。

 现在,我们才开始收拾用品,把房间弄整齐。
 这是爸爸家房间,做月时,我们会在这儿一个月。
 你的婆婆公公都把床弄好了。
 这里的2房,之前不是这个样子,很乱的。
 现在要弄更整齐,可以放多点宝宝用品。

请看看,妈咪为你准备的摄影哦~

Link: https://youtu.be/fGsYTaBUJjM
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孕期间的他。。。

Tuesday, October 10, 2017
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New life is growing :)

Saturday, June 3, 2017
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Hello! Greeting from my baby! Good news from us! Little Tan is growing well and active.
Erm.. don't know the gender yet. :)

I'm so glad I'd passed 1st trimester. Nope, no morning sickness, I got some evening sickness. I always tend to get bloat stomach when I reached home after work. Often I get nausea or feeling want to vomit. Luckily I endure it.  Then the feeling of want to sleep is 3x stronger. I can now sleep in every where!! Toilet, stairs, chairs, desk or bed with lights or video on. Call me pig.... because I ate a lot too... Frequent but not that big portions. hmph!!

I knew I had baby when .... the May event happens.. esp, my husband in hospital, friends get married and doing makeup part time. Work is work, I glad it happened because time passed so fast than I realized. Often busy-ness made me forget bout nausea, all I know is hungry then eat, sleepy then sleep. hahahhah!

Chinese always mentioned that, before 3months, cannot announce. Well, somehow I believe in half, still cannot keep to myself. I told almost everyone near me. :P  This does benefits me too, because whenever they saw me carry things or doing things, they watch out and also help me carry for me! I feel like so QUEEN! They took care of me so much till I felt loves they gave to me and my baby T,T touching....

So well, little Tan grow quite well in there.
I just done some check up last week, went to ultrasound scan for the first time, seeing lil Tan in the screen, waving actively to us, and suck the fingers, or turning like 360degrees in my uterus. And, I have yet felt it. After few weeks I believe I'll feel you!

How do we act when we first knew we kena jackpot?  hmmmm... when I felt not right due to my late period for about 1 week. I got regular period then. I bought the pregnancy test and brought home. The husband was ready to go out for a badminton sessions. I took out the pack and asked if you would like to wait a few minutes for this. He is a bit shock, but he said won't so accurate gua~
"Let's see then" I said, went into toilet. By the time I dropped on the stripe, saw it moving and leading to 2 lines, I knew it came. I came out, he asked: how? I said, you can see the result yourself there. He went in and asked: 2 lines means..... got d? "uh huh" I answered. The next thing we know is we sit on the bed like blank out for few seconds, can't stop the heart beating fast..... We sort of like feeling complicated than happy, because it is not in plan (I mean within this year).  It took us few days to accept it. I did not feel very happy or very sad, just... normal and feel... curious how little human growing inside me.

Until, the day we went to screening.  We saw it grow actively and healthily, we smile uncontrollably. Plus seeing my husband smile widely too :D  Yes, we are happy to see you!

Since then, he took extra care of me. Bought me food, feed me well, doing most of the house cores, hungry before sleep and he get me a cup of milo kosong, help me wash dishes, carry minor things, cook for me if can, hold me tight than before, scared that my clumsiness made me fall down... etc! Can you continue to take care of me as such after birth too?? :P

As happy as we are. Thank you all for the blessings! Muacks!
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Japan Trip III Osaka!

Sunday, March 19, 2017
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Japan III. Continue with my Japan Honeymoon trip~ Osaka is the place we long hope for.
We traveled from Kyoto to Osaka with train. We started to familiar with the train.... still we got some misunderstanding of the route. I should have study well for my japanese.

 Their clean classic train! Those spongy seats were all still well maintenance.
If in Malaysia, you can imagine how broken would be.
 The last hotel I found in Agoda.
The most expensive, because it stated Shinsaibashi.
However we still required 15mins walk to Shinsaibashi.
Considered near, just that kinda difficult to find because it is not at main street.
As usual, we need to check in at 3pm. So we leave our lugguage in hotel, and walk down the street for food.
 We found Glico man!
I always saw this Glico man in discovery show.
I quickly ask my man to took a picture. 
When I asked if he want to, he throw me a question: Why is so special about this 招牌?
I flipped my eyes...told him, this is the signature of OSAKA!
If you did not take this picture, you will seems like not been here before!
He still don't want. =.="
Even we walked passed here few times later at night or next day... I keep asking him the same questions. He still insist don't want.
And he blame that everyone taking this picture on bridge is like cause the crowd jam. =.="
I said: "Just like you went to New York, and you want to took the liberty statue. It is the same meaning." 
He likes: oh....
and somehow kinda taking selfie with me with my hp at night. 
My hp front cam is not that good... so no posted here.
 My focus is not the guy
is the famous Shinsaibashi street!

 They are really good with big display signboard.
really made me hungry
 So crowded there until I'm so embarrassed to take a picture here
he took quite sometime to press the shutter. =.=
 We decided to take sushi in Japan finally in OSAKA
It is our last destination, we can eat with enough budget.

 Inside looks like this.
Overall... still fine.
Maybe we can't speak Jap, we can't order a fresh one
Sashimi not that fat
overall just ok.
We a bit disappointed. 
 Finally we can checked in
get a rest.
 Checking out Toilet
 This is small double bed.
Else is quite expensive
 Still smaller than we thought.

 All within same space
 Toilet is always clean. :)
 We walk to a street market to simply choose a small restaurant
 We always scared the restaurant could not speak English
nor no English Menu.
Kinda difficult.
 Until I am starving only we went in.
It is nice surprisingly!
Just that the portion is bit small for him
okonomiyaki First time there
 Loves the BBQ sauce

 went in Black market. hehehe
but it is closed. :(

My friend said this is famous OKONOMIYAKI, too bad I eaten already only found this.


 Cow hanging

 Famous Ramen
 See how crowded?
 It is raining, so we hidding.


 Bought this for supper!

 Yummy
 Part of it is ours, part of it is helping friends. Finally can shop more for the last destination. He knew how long I endure this. muahahhaha!

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Universal Studio OSAKA!!!
Long waiting!

We woke up the earliest as we could among all the days in Japan.

 We reached like 8am. It is already crowded
 Most of them wearing costume.
Seems fun!



 How peoples wearing in USS
 It is Halloween!
How lucky we are
 Eating breakfast and saw Monroe 
 Saw them but they speak Japanese... hahaha
 All queuing already
They stated time there.
Really crazy.. 1 hour each time.
 New one. Harry potter!
Amazing and crowded too
It looks like snowing. hahaha

 Waiting for the parade. Well, we felt some quake here. Minor luckily.
 Turkey drumstick for lunch
 Can't finish thought.


 Pardon my cacat face...
but I like this view.
 Everywhere is nice picture view



 our first ride there. hehe

 scary


 Wahahaha.. looks fun. But I don't wan!






 He kinda drag us behind suddenly
That is why we are quite shocked.
 Mali Mali Hom
Great sorcery 

 Need a broom for the house? or fly?


 I chose churos... hahahah








 My elmo!


 7pm, all the zombies were here
I gave them 100% show case.
They really in this mode all along the road!
Imma quite scared by them.
Why? Because when they scared someone, the person who got shocked will just run without noticing others.
Scare mah... sure run for your life, eventually hit someone. 
The zombies also quite discipline, they won't scare those with babies or pregnant one
they scared all those youngsters. hahaha 
Zombie in dancing mode
They are all dancers!!
Those zombies on road side also dance together
what song? Famous Micheal jackson songs. 

It is really fun there.
We did not ride those famous coasters
However we are quite satisfied staying there.


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